A recent return request inspired me to write this post. Many times I get return requests for something somebody bought for another person, that they would like to see them wear. Most of these items are along the lines of the now popular Fifty Shades of Grey Trilogy.
For example this Rubber Look Lace Up Dress.
If your significant other buys you something that they would like to see you in….then WEAR IT! So what if it is “not your style”!, It’s their style! If you love this person or care about them, then why wouldn’t you do this for them? Hell, it might be fun, but most importantly, this person wants to see you in it, do it for them. Relationships are about equal give and take. If it is something that seems totally outrageous to you and you just can’t bring yourself to put it on, then you really need to re-think your relationship. If you never give in to your significant others “fifty shades of fantasies”, then they will go looking for it elsewhere. Trust me on this!
This is especially true for people in the adult entertainment business. If a customer or fan buys you something to wear, WEAR IT!!!!!!!! Who cares if it’s not-your-style! The person wants to see you in it and you will be tipped well and have a loyal fan for doing it. When you are an entertainer it is ALL about them and what they want to see, it’s not about you and your style. The most successful entertainers know this very well.
The last return I had from a woman entertainer was this item: Black Gothic PVC Underbust Corset(apparently, many men really like this dominatrix, bad-girl look). She returned it saying it-was not-her-style. (I wish I had a dollar for every return request with reason. lol) Weeks later she contacted me wondering where her refund was. Ummmm how can I refund her? She didn’t buy it, one of her fans did. Anyway, she was bummed because she didn’t want him to know she returned it…..FACT: A sure way to get a man to never buy anything for you again, is to return something he bought for you. Size returns are OK. Returning for a refund or something else is NOT OK. It’s kind of like a slap in the face to the guy and not in a “fifty shades of grey” slap. 😉
Is it really going to kill you to put on something you don’t like or feel like an idiot in? Just wearing it for them once will make them happy. And who knows, you might end up liking it. 😀
If you are a picky Diva Goddess and must have what YOU want, then do yourself and your admirers a favor and build a Wish List and let everyone know about it. Actually, the Wish List is a great way to let other people know what you like, your size and preferences. Plus, it can easily be shared via email, facebook, twitter, widgets, web pages, texting, mobile apps, etc.
My Google Adsense ads and Affiliate ads were not showing and I just spent half the day trying to figure out why. I decided my site needed a face lift. I had not done much to it in a couple of years, so I thought maybe Google changed some things. Then, I logged into my Adsense account and got a blank blue screen! After a few hours of searching the web and trying different things, I realized I have Ad Blocker for Firefox activated. DUH! No wonder my ads weren’t showing! I disabled ad blocker now my Adsense ads and Affiliate ads are showing, except I wasted half a day. 🙁
I just got the new Fall Preview issue and could not wait to open it up to see what is going to be hot this fall. I am not happy! WTH was Victoria’s Secret thinking, or am I just really getting out of touch with fashion?
What is up with this outfit on page 22? This looks dumpy! Baggy jeans, baggy top and high heeled gray boots? Not sexy or even casual, this is something I would do yard work in, minus the ugly gray boots.
Check out page 31, Tapered pants (ie: Clown pants)! These were one the the biggest fashion mistakes of the 1980’s. Nobody looks good in these. Big baggy pants with a tapered leg?…..YES, your ass will look big in those!
There is a whole section of dumpy clothes! It’s like LL Bean trying to be sexy….it’s not working.
Look at this outfit on page 18. Baggy cargo pants tapered & stuffed into knee high boots, with a shapeless drab green babydoll top, paired with a black leather aviator jacket. This is not flattering and looks more like government issued Army clothes. Or………when did “Grunge” come back?
Maybe I am just getting old,… I don’t know. I usually like most of what Victoria’s Secret has. This issue is mostly unattractive, dumpy, weird stuff.
Now, this is what I like and they happen to be on sale in this issue. A nice pair of jeans, a white top and high heels. You can’t go wrong with this. It is simple, classic, comfortable & sexy.
It’s 4th of July and you wanted to look like this in a bikini.
You started your diet in January, lost 5 lbs and have since gained back 10. You tried Low Fat, South Beach, Jenny Craig, Low Carb, Weight Watchers and worked out everyday for 3 hours. But, you felt like crap, were starving all day and couldn’t keep from eating a whole 1lb bag of M&M’s, or my down fall was potato chips (you can’t eat just one!).
It just doesn’t seem right that dieting is so hard. I was so frustrated with my fat self that I hit the internet in search of why I could not lose weight, no matter what I ate or how much I worked out.
18 months ago I stumbled on some information that changed my life. I have since lost over 30 pounds, I look 10 years younger, have more energy than I have had in years and feel fantastic. The best thing of all is that it didn’t cost me a dime and it was so easy! No pills, no clubs to join, no more starving and no more 3 hour workouts!
I know it sounds to good to be true, but it is! All I did was eliminate carbohydrates from my diet ( Zero Carb). Everything you need to know about how I finally beat the battle of the bulge forever is located at: http://zeroinginonhealth.com
This is not a sales pitch, I am just so happy about how I feel that I wanted to share it. It would be great if this blog post helped just one person find the happiness & health that I have.
Don’t miss it! On tonight, Dec 3rd at 10pm/9pm central on CBS. The Victorias Secret Annual Holiday Runway Show is the kick off to what’s hot in the lingerie fashion industry for 2009! The styles, colors & textures, what’s new for 2009? Victoria’s Secret plans this spectacular fashion show just in time for Christmas and Valentines Day.
This year Adriana Lima is set to wear a Black Diamond 5 million dollar bra, designed by Martin Katz. (does anybody really buy the 5 million dollar bra?!)
Be sure to tune in tonight for the most anticipated Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show of the year!